Yesterday I had an interesting conversation with a guy I’ve just met. He’s cool, laidback, will be a friend, but not boyfriend material. Anyway, we were talking yesterday and he made the comment how he enjoyed the “connection” we had and how much he surprisingly able to relate to me on a different wavelength than everyone else, ladeda. (hold comments on the sappiness and his real motives behind it, we just met a few weeks ago so of course I’m being cynical. I’m saving that for another post.)
Anyway, the point I’m making is that he was so surprised we got along. On the outward appearance I look like your quiet, meek, mild, innocent church girl. People quickly realize though most of the time that I’m not. My past is definitely not the most innocent and while I have my quiet moments (I lean toward being introverted) I am certainly loud and teasing of a frequent basis. Many other people have made the same comments about me though. It actually intrigues the guys more because they realize their first impressions were wrong and they’re curious as to who I “really am.” That is… if they stay around long enough to realize their mistake.
Have you ever had an experience like this? Where your first impression was so grossly wrong and you realized you judged to quickly? How often do you make concrete decisions about someone based on your first impression and leave/stay?
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